The vast subcontinent of India is a wide, dangling peninsula south of Asia. Exploring it for two weeks barely touches all there is to experience. If that’s all the time you have, joining a travel group might be the best strategy. Aligning with causes, investigating medical tourism, or attending festivals can provide a focus for the trip. March was International Women’s History Month in the US and I jumped into an early spring tour exploring the Divine Feminine in Rajasthan with Purposeful Nomads.

All the rich colors, textures, air quality, crowds, high luxury, and deep poverty of India can be overwhelming. How to manage them? Joining a travel group made it easy but much depends on the kind of traveler you are. I wanted a paced immersion and rarely join tours, preferring to stop and go on a whim with bare-bones planning. However, guidance for this first trip to India gave me the freedom and security to travel without worring about my next steps and to take pictures with abandon.

Chai time with our travel group

Chai time with our travel group

Women traveling in India need to pay attention to cultural differences but it’s no burden. I never felt at risk as a Boomer traveler. So many little freedoms that I enjoy in the US, like taking a bus or Uber alone at night, seem innocent but can be iffy in India. I was able to rely on our local guides from Rajput Cultural Adventures who tirelessly answered questions and offered advice on request. Author J.D. Viharini had coached me on safety issues long before I ventured to India (Read the interview here.)  Still, I left my tight, yoga leggings at home and made sure to cover up cleavage. It was the respectful thing to do and all of us enjoyed wearing beautiful wraps and dresses. Shopping for them became a highlight of the trip.

Henna hands in Setrawa, India

Henna hands in Setrawa, India

Experiencing Jodhpur on International Women’s Day was a rare honor. I joined a parade of several hundred girls and ladies in pink, along with volunteers and staff of both genders from Sambhali Trust. One morning we joined the women working in the guest house craft room as they patiently coached us on how to stuff toys and stitch. They also created a delicious traditional, vegetarian lunch, full of complex curries, chutneys, pakoras, and chapatis. One night, gypsy dancers entertained us at a rooftop dinner in the girls’ boarding house but nothing was as charming as having students coach our Bollywood moves and seeing their artwork in the school bunkroom.

drawing in Sambhali guest house

Sambhali Trust crafts

Sambhali Trust crafts

Sambhali’s motto is self-esteem, unity, independence. It’s a tall order given the status that many women have in India, especially in the poorer areas and remote villages. Things are slowly improving and this video illustrates some of the challenges women face:

Getting to India

The dates had been set for months and with the travel group, Purposeful Nomad, my only tasks were to arrange a flight landing in New Delhi in time to meet the travel group and get a visa. I have an American Passport so an e-visa was fairly simple. The online application took some time to complete as it needed document verifications and pictures. Payment was easy by credit card and approval came within days of completion. I traveled with two printed copies of emails showing the visa was authorized. At first, I was concerned because my verification looked different than the tour group leaders’ copy but everything was stamped quickly and easily at the India customs desk.

The pool at Jodhpur's Ajit Bhawan Heritage Hotel

The pool at Jodhpur’s Ajit Bhawan Heritage Hotel

I flew from California to Bejing and onto India. Most of the travel group flew from the East Coast or over Europe to India. My flight with Air China was the only one that wasn’t delayed due to temporary restrictions over Pakistani air space. We came in from another direction.

Rajasthan and the Thar Desert in India

We set out for the Thar Desert and sites throughout the Golden Triangle – Jaisalmer, Jodhpur, Jaipur,  and Agra. Our short flight to Jaisalmer, about 100 miles from the Pakistani border, brought us to the village of Setrawa, with its desert dunes and cool nights. From the airport, we boarded the bus that would take us around Rajasthan for the next twelve days.

Camel cart ride in the Thar Desert

Camel cart ride in the Thar Desert

Our Rajasthan Tour Group Itinerary:

  • Jaisalmer – The golden city is built of ochre sandstone with its ancient fort carved from the solid rock above the desert floor. We stayed at Mandir Palace, one home of the 500 royal families of India. The Prince of Jaisalmer welcomed our small tour group for tea and sunset from his rooftop home. The city was very walkable but the fort is being impacted by heavy traffic. With that in mind, we walked up to and around the fort easily.
  • Setrawa – Visiting the village of Setrawa and the home of Sambhali Trust was the centerpiece of the trip. In the village we stoped at shops, admiring local crafts, met nomads. One afternoon the ladies at Sambhali Trust demonstrated how to wear saris, decorated our hands with henna, and showed us how to prepare local foods. Lodging was in a family compound where local musicians joined us at dinner after a camel cart ride to the sand dunes for chai at sunset.
Jodhpur Fort view from the lower Blue City with our tour group

Jodhpur Fort view from the lower Blue City with our tour group

  • Jodhpur – The Blue City is famous for the cerulean walls in the village at the base of the grand fort. Sambhali Trust has a shop there and a guest house where women come to gain job skills. Two boarding houses in town make it possible for girls to get an education. What fun it was to join them for an International Women’s Day parade through downtown. I loved surveying the reservoirs and deep functional step wells that dot the city center. Over lunch at the Stair Well Cafe, I watched boys dare each other in jumping trials from verandas into the cool waters dozens of feet below.
  • Pushkar – The lake is surrounded with steps that fill with bathers in the evenings and between temples, international bohos slither and dance. There’s a camel fair in the fall but it was quiet during our visit aside from the temple chants and bells. It’s a beautiful, calm place I could stay in for days.
  • Jaipur – The Pink City and Old Jaipur Center are decorated with clay facades scrolled with elaborate white designs. The city is laced with specialty markets and temples. We visited the Textile Center, Amer Fort and viewed the Wind Palace.

Elaine at the Taj Mahal

  • Agra – The Taj Mahal earns every accolade it’s ever received.  A jewel in the midst of a garden state, each face is identical and it sits along a riverbank. Roads to the Taj cut through town, vast fields of wheat, and herds of goats on the way to the center.
  • New Delhi – Lotus Temple is a stunning Bahai Center. We luckily arrived for a short ceremony with chants from many of the world’s religions echoing through the building. Other temples of note: The Hare Krishna Temple, Mosque and Sihk Centers. Riding a pedi-cab through passages with walls narrow enough to touch was an incredible way to visit the Spice Market.

Rajasthan is only one region of India! Now I know why people return multiple times – there are so many other areas to see and experience. Somehow I’ll return again and again.

I visited India with Purposeful Nomad through WITS and with the priceless help of Virendra Singh Chouhan and Govind Singh Rathore of Rajput Cultural Adventures and Sambhali Trust

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